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So then, I believe in balance and duality doesn’t exist in my reality. Don’t wait for fate to decide what will happen to you. You have to set goals, decide on the results you want and take action. You have a highly developed will for a reason. If you are trying to create something and you must struggle, push, and work hard to force things to happen with little result, you are not following the right path. A few obstacles may come up here and there to provide you with the opportunity to become stronger and more definite about your goals, but if you are finding too many “closed doors”, if you feel exhausted or drained by your efforts, or feel you are doing something only because you have no other choice, stop man. Look and feel for something else you have been wanting to do. When you are flowing in the right path, there is a balance between feeling carried by the current and feeling that you are using your own will to create results.
When you let go, surrender and let things happen. You will soon overcome anxiety and afford the opportunity to take whatever actions appeal to you. If you want a particular result, do everything that your inner messages are indicating, then, surrender and let the best happen, even if it doesn’t meet your expectations, it is perfect in some way for you and your growth. To see it, you have to see the bigger picture. Doing so involves putting everything into its larger framework. You may have already discovered that seemingly unimportant things you learned, jobs you took, and experiences you had, all fit together in a way you couldn’t have anticipated at the time. It was only later, when you saw the bigger picture, that you realized the importance of certain things. Your soul has a larger plan for your life, and every experience you have will fit together and give you value in some way, even if you don’t know yet how. Seeing the bigger picture will show you the perfection of the universe. It is truly perfect in every way. You will understand cause and effect. You strive for perfection and often times becomes disgruntled over things seemingly imperfect. You turn away or close the door. You will understand that everything you are doing IS perfect, because it is serving a higher purpose. Learn to take action on insights and ideas when they show you how you can live a better life. Don’t look to other people for validation or wait for their support to believe in and act upon your ideas. Develop the courage to believe in yourself and your insights. Do things as you see best. Raising your vibration comes from opening your heart. When you feel loving, you experience more aliveness, expansion, and renewal. Love is flowing with the universe rather than resisting it. Love is a willingness to be vulnerable, it is accepting yourself and others just as you and they are. Unconditional love dissolves all separateness. As you learn to love yourself and others more, you increase your vibration. You can open your heart more by loving yourself. Love all the parts of yourself, even those thoughts and feelings you may have labeled as negative. If you feel anger or doubt, love those feelings as much as you love your feelings of joy and peace. Love your humanity as well as your divinity. Love your insecurities and your negative feelings. If you feel unforgiving, or unloving, love those feelings too. Love all of what you call your “imperfections.” You don’t/won’t change them by denying or hating them. You change them by loving them. As you love your negative feelings they can evolve into their positive expressions. Love all your thoughts, even those that are limited or fearful. Think of them as small children needing your love and reassurance. If you catch a negative thought, don’t make yourself wrong for having it. Love all your negative thoughts and they will have far less power over you. Put a positive thought alongside with your negative thought; one positive thought can cancel out hundreds of negative ones. Love your humanness; it is what you are here to experience and learn from. Love your weaknesses as well as your strengths, for those are the areas that most need your love to evolve. As you love and accept yourself, the extension of love unto others will come freely. It’s the buy one get one free sale on love and life. People are doing the best they know how given their backgrounds, circumstances, and beliefs. When you go to a new level of love and commitment with people, they may start acting in unlovable ways they hadn’t expressed before. Love is a powerful energy. The parts of a person that have not felt loved in the past begin to feel safe enough to expose themselves, because you have become more loving to let them show. Your love has given those rejected feelings a safe place to arise. Do not take offense if people are rude, or unkind, or seem like they are trying to hurt your feelings. You can not know what is happening to them. Many of the people you are dealing with are younger than you at a soul level and aren’t yet able to act kind and loving as often as they would like. Teach them. Learn to stop reacting to others’ unkindness, rudeness, or lack of consideration for you. You attract things and people of similar vibration. Because everything in the universe has a vibration, the rate of your vibration determines the people, events, circumstances, and objects you draw to yourself. You attract friends and lovers whose soul development and lessons are similar to yours. You may increase your vibration to a level where you are no longer at the same point of development, and if this happens, you will probably separate. Raising your vibration changes your relationship to everything. Since your personal objects are attracted to your vibration, when you change your vibration you may go through periods of selling things, losing things, or buying new things. You may move to a new place, or change your self-image. To grow with joy, it is important to follow your inner messages and make small, easy changes. Then things will not get so out of balance and you will not create situations that trigger strong, intense feelings. If you are feeling a negative emotion about something, it’s your human nature simply telling you that you need to pay closer attention to the signals and inner messages affected. Pay attention to the slightest feelings of irritability, resentment, or negativity. There is much to be learned from them. There are many currents of energy going through you in the form of emotions. You choose the range of intensity of your emotions. Some choose to have a very broad range, from immense pain to great joy. Some choose narrower ranges. Because we live in polarity, for each positive emotion you have you will also have its opposite. Emotional calm comes from finding the balance point. Some feel more alive when you have strong, turbulent feelings. You may worry that calming your emotions makes you feel less alive. Thinking if things are too peaceful with your mate, you may think that your relationship has lost some of its passion and aliveness. You may be confusing intesity with love. Some people think that unless there is a lot of emotional drama in a relationship, the other person doesn’t care for them. They love high, intense feeling and create dramas in order to feel them. Some of us learn to value harmonious emotions by first experiencing turbulent ones. You may be angry or cry for hours, feeling hurt, betrayed, or rejected. You will come to a point where strong, negative emotions are intolerable and you want peace above all else. With that strong desire you will begin to make the changes that will bring calm into your life, and avoid the drama. You can choose peace no matter how others are acting. When you have unhappy emotions, don’t think another person caused them. If you are angry, stop blaming another person for making you angry. Instead, work directly with your feelings of anger. Waiting for others to act in certain ways to be happy is making your happiness dependent upon something outside yourself and beyond your control. It is turning your power over to other people and allowing them to determine how you feel. What you feel is your choice. You deserve to have a wonderful life filled with love, abundance, good friends, excellent health, and loving relationships. Start by believing that a good life is naturally yours, not something you have to earn or pay for. It is the higher plan of the universe for all beings to have lives of beauty, harmony, and abundance. You allow things into your life easily and effortlessly all the time. There are many things you think you deserve, and you do not think twice about having them. Although you easily allow abundance into some areas of your life, there are other things you think you do not deserve or must work hard for. You deserve the greatest things you can imagine just as much as you deserve all the smaller things you so easily allow into your life. If something is going well, and you find yourself saying. “things are too good to be true – i wonder how long this will last,” stop man! Instead, challenge yourself to imagine things getting even better. Your thoughts create your reality, so pay attention to any limited thinking. You need to be observant to catch them when they come up, for you do not want them sliding by unnoticed. Every situation is an opportunity to grow. The universe is perfect, everything you do and everything that happens is perfect, and for good reason, it happened in a perfect way and it couldn’t have happened in any other better way. From the higher perspective of today, you may be able to look back into the past and know that things you once interpreted as negative offered you growth and new beginnings. If something you were hoping for doesn’t happen, know that something even better will, even though you do not see it then. Allow people to love you. Receive their love in all the ways they give it to you. People give you love in the ways they want to receive it; their giving may not always match your expectations. Learn to recognize love in all the ways it’s being given. What you accept as true will create your reality. Choose what information and situations you agree with and want as your truth and into your life. Love yourself. The rest is pie.
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